WHY THE JAPA SYNDROME IS SO DANGEROUS 😳

Running away from your home country, often referred to as fleeing or japa, can have significant and often negative repercussions. These repercussions can be broadly categorized into emotional, social, economic, and legal challenges.

  1. Emotional and Psychological Impact:
  • Trauma: The experience of leaving one’s home, often under duress, can be traumatic. This trauma is compounded by the fear of persecution, violence, or other dangers that led to the decision to flee.
  • Loss of Identity: Being away from one’s culture, language, and community can lead to a loss of identity and a sense of belonging.
  • Mental Health Issues: The stress of displacement, coupled with the uncertainty of the future, can lead to depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues.
  1. Social Isolation:
  • Cultural Displacement: In a new country, you might face difficulties integrating into the local culture. Differences in language, customs, and societal norms can create a sense of alienation.
  • Separation from Family: Often, those who flee leave behind family members, leading to long-term separation. This can cause immense emotional strain and feelings of guilt.
  • Discrimination and Xenophobia: Immigrants and refugees can face hostility or discrimination in their host countries, making it difficult to form social connections and fully participate in society.
  1. Economic Hardships:
  • Unemployment: Finding work in a new country can be challenging, especially if your qualifications are not recognized or if there is a language barrier. Many refugees and asylum seekers end up in low-paying jobs or remain unemployed.
  • Loss of Assets: Fleeing often means leaving behind property, savings, and other assets. Rebuilding financial stability in a new country can be difficult and may take years.
  • Dependence on Aid: Without a stable income, many who flee their countries become reliant on government aid, charities, or international organizations, which may not be sustainable in the long term.
  1. Legal and Bureaucratic Challenges:
  • Asylum Process: The process of seeking asylum or refugee status is often long, complex, and uncertain. There’s no guarantee that asylum will be granted, and during the waiting period, individuals might live in precarious conditions.
  • Statelessness: In some cases, individuals who flee may become stateless, especially if their home country revokes their citizenship or they cannot acquire legal status in their new country.
  • Risk of Deportation: If your asylum application is denied or if you are caught without proper documentation, you could be deported back to your home country, where you may face the same dangers that led you to flee.
  1. Loss of Political and Civic Rights:
  • Disenfranchisement: In many cases, fleeing your country can result in losing the right to vote or participate in political processes both in your home country and in your new one.
  • Inability to Return: Even if conditions improve, returning home may not be an option due to legal barriers, lack of resources, or continued risks.
  1. Impact on Future Generations:
  • Integration Challenges: Children who grow up in a host country may struggle with identity issues, trying to balance the culture of their parents with that of the society they live in.
  • Education Disruptions: The education of children who flee can be disrupted, leading to gaps in learning and long-term disadvantages in their academic and professional futures.
  1. Social Stigma:
  • Label of Refugee: In some contexts, being labeled as a refugee or asylum seeker carries a stigma, which can affect how you are perceived and treated by others in the host country.

Overall, while fleeing one’s home country may be necessary for safety, the decision often comes with profound and challenging repercussions that can affect individuals and families for years or even generations.

MY TRIP TO #LAGOS #NIGERIA AND ADVICE TO INTENDED VISITORS..

Surviving in Lagos, Nigeria, can be challenging, but with some preparation and understanding of the city’s dynamics, you can navigate it successfully. Here are some tips:

1. Understand the Environment

  • Traffic: Lagos is notorious for its traffic jams (referred to as “go-slow”). Plan your journeys early and consider alternative routes. Traffic apps like Google Maps or local apps like GidiTraffic can help.
  • Weather: The climate is tropical, so be prepared for heat and humidity. Carry water, sunscreen, and an umbrella (especially during the rainy season).

2. Safety First

  • Stay Alert: Petty crimes like pickpocketing are common in crowded areas. Keep your belongings secure, avoid displaying valuables, and be cautious at night.
  • Trusted Transport: Use trusted transportation options. Ride-hailing apps like Uber, Bolt, or local taxis from reputable ranks are safer than random street cabs. If using public transport (danfo buses), be cautious.
  • Neighbourhoods: Some areas are safer than others. Research and stick to safer, more affluent areas like Victoria Island, Ikoyi, or Lekki if possible.

3. Cost of Living

  • Bargain Wisely: Lagos is a city where bargaining is expected. Don’t be afraid to haggle in markets or with vendors.
  • Rent and Accommodation: Accommodation can be expensive, especially in high-demand areas. Consider sharing a flat or living in a slightly less central area if budget is a concern.
  • Local Markets: Buying groceries from local markets (as opposed to supermarkets) can be cheaper and offers fresher produce.

4. Networking

  • Build Connections: Lagos is a city where who you know matters. Networking can open doors and make life easier. Attend local events, join expatriate communities, or participate in industry meet-ups.
  • Learn the Language: While English is widely spoken, learning some basic Yoruba or Pidgin English can help you blend in and navigate daily interactions more easily.

5. Healthcare

  • Health Facilities: Private hospitals and clinics are generally better equipped than public ones. Have health insurance or be prepared for out-of-pocket expenses.
  • Preventive Measures: Take precautions against malaria by using mosquito nets, repellents, and taking anti-malaria medication if advised.

6. Cultural Sensitivity

  • Respect Local Customs: Lagosians value respect and politeness. Address older people as “sir” or “ma” and be mindful of local traditions.
  • Religion: Nigeria is a deeply religious country, with Christianity and Islam being the dominant religions. Respect religious practices and public holidays.

7. Dealing with Power Outages

  • Generators/Inverters: Power outages are frequent. Many homes and businesses have generators or inverters. If possible, invest in backup power options or ensure your accommodation has reliable alternatives.

8. Enjoy the City

  • Entertainment: Lagos has a vibrant social scene. Explore the nightlife, visit beaches like Tarkwa Bay, and enjoy local cuisine. Don’t miss out on experiencing Nigerian jollof rice, suya, or pepper soup.
  • Cultural Sites: Explore the National Museum, Nike Art Gallery, or Lekki Conservation Centre to get a taste of Nigerian art and history.

9. Adaptability

  • Patience: Lagos can be overwhelming, but patience is key. Whether dealing with bureaucracy, traffic, or daily challenges, staying calm and adaptable will serve you well.
  • Resourcefulness: Things don’t always work as expected. Being resourceful and finding alternative solutions will help you navigate life in Lagos more smoothly.

By staying alert, respecting local customs, and being prepared for the city’s unique challenges, you can not only survive in Lagos but also enjoy its vibrant culture and opportunities. Am Darkydey.

TIRED OF ALL THE NEGATIVITY. NIGERIA IS OUR COUNTRY.

Nigeria, often known as the “Giant of Africa,” is a country of vibrant culture, resilience, and remarkable achievements. One uplifting story from Nigeria revolves around its thriving technology sector, often dubbed “Silicon Savannah.”

In recent years, Nigeria has emerged as a leading tech hub in Africa, with Lagos at its heart. The city, once known primarily for its bustling markets and sprawling urban landscape, has transformed into a beacon of innovation and entrepreneurship. Nigerian tech startups are now catching the world’s attention, not just for their ingenuity but also for their impact on society.

One such success story is that of Paystack, a fintech company founded by two young Nigerians, Shola Akinlade and Ezra Olubi. Launched in 2015, Paystack set out to solve the problem of online payments in Nigeria. Their platform, designed to make online transactions seamless for businesses and customers alike, quickly gained traction. Within a few years, Paystack became one of the most trusted payment processors in the country, serving thousands of businesses and enabling millions of transactions.

In 2020, Paystack made headlines globally when it was acquired by Stripe, a major American fintech company, in a deal reportedly worth over $200 million. This acquisition not only marked one of the largest exits by a Nigerian startup but also underscored the potential of the Nigerian tech ecosystem. The success of Paystack has inspired a new generation of entrepreneurs in Nigeria, fostering a spirit of innovation and determination among the youth.

Beyond the tech sector, Nigerians continue to shine on the global stage. The country’s rich cultural heritage, expressed through music, art, and literature, resonates far beyond its borders. Nigerian artists like Burna Boy and Wizkid have won Grammy Awards, while authors like #Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie have become literary icons, celebrated for their powerful storytelling.

Nigeria’s story is one of resilience, creativity, and a relentless pursuit of progress. Despite challenges, Nigerians continue to rise, breaking barriers and making their mark on the world. The country’s burgeoning tech scene, coupled with its rich cultural exports, paints a picture of a nation that is not only surviving but thriving, driven by the indomitable spirit of its people. God bless #Nigeria and #Nigerians

IT`S YOUR HUMAN RIGHT TO BE AN IDIOT!

Even a mosquito has the right to life, so why wont an idiot human not have the same right to idiocrasy. You do sabi say, that university in your city was built by an idiot abi? The banks and libraries in your cities were all built by idiots.

You fit translate our article into any other language wey u wan if you no fit decode Naija pidgin English.

#idiot #stupidity #people #nigerians #naija #pidgin

WHY HERBAL TREATMENT DON´T WORK ON YOU

You don ever wonder say, why e bi say, when you dey take herbal treatment to fight some yamayama wahala, e no dey seem to work? or why mainstream practitioners no dey to talk or approve the fact say, the best way to heal the body na via holistic practice? Well I get better explanation for you….. Listen below.

You fit translate our article into any other language wey u wan if you no fit decode Naija pidgin English.

#herbaltreatment #veganlifestyle
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Lets learn the Ibibio / Efik dialect

Learn to speak ibibio / Efik dialect

My take on the issue of dialect be say, translating a native dialect into English na something wey person no suppose do, bicos English and the native dialect of some place no get anything in common, a word in your native dialect no get an English translation, an English word, no get any meaning in your native dialect. English is a dialect and your native dialect is also a dialect, I no know weter una get wetin I dey try explain here, but bicos say, some people bin go around the world dey impose their native dialect on other people, na im make today everibodi wan speak English, and if you refuse to speak am, dem say u never go skool, lol! but wen people wey English bi dem mother dialect no sabi speak some other people dialect, nobodi go say dem never go skool, ( double standard abi?) Anyways for the sake of clarity, today I wan teach una some words in the Ibibio / Efik dialect of the people of Akwa Ibom and Cross Rivers States of Naija.

Here are some words in Ibibio / Efik not in alphabetical order

Marriages and Relationships no bi by force abeg! nothing bi by force in dis life

If you are not happy with whatever it is you are doing, leave! it´s not by force abeg!

People dey do things sometimes wey bi say dem no suppose do at all, some go dey force themselves stay for place wey no make dem happy at all, see make I tell una now, nothing wey you dey do for this Planet wey dem force you to do, Marriage and relationship dem no bi by force, no bi by force say you must to marry and have Children, your life na you get am so no allow anything mess am up for you, I don yarn my own finish, listen to the Podcast below.

You fit translate our article into any other language wey u wan if you no fit decode Naija pidgin English.

Marriage and relation not by force abeg #marriage #relationship